Thursday, November 17, 2005
trust... one of the element in life...
In the working world... everyone must learn how to not just give... but also how to gain trust from others... being truthful to everyone in the clan and communicate to each other more... you will in turn learn how to slowly gain trust from them...
and also in the mids of communicating you must pick those who you can trust and bring them closer to you... they will soon to be your force of fighters together... pick them carefully... if there is any mistakes in the picking you will regret as... some may go as far as to struck one deep wound behind your back...
by gaining their trust, you can also get many benefits... cos they give you the trust... they will give you more informations and knowledge that you require in life... and work. like for many of us... gossiping... if they dun trust you... they dun even want to tell you more about them... and wat they know... sometimes... informations like tips in exam and secret recepits... you can get just like 1,2,3...
there is always a word... "Be presence, not be present."
this is to all leaders... as you must learn to trust your worker... being presence in their mind when you are not around... and not to be present all the time around them and not trusting them on their work or job....
the company needs a leader to lead.... not to always go around and tell people wat they should do... cos this will in turn be a nuisance in their mind. like do you like it when people are always watching you on wat you are doing?? or do you like a leader who can trust you and give you the freedom to do the job your way and finish with the same result??
if you are able to control or lead a party of fighters... just by a call and trust... then you are already very successful in the job.
See if you dun trust them... you will be so busy in many things and not able to do your own part of job in time... like have to always do everything yourself... cos you are so scare to pass them the part of the job.... as you dun trust them, you will everything oso D.I.Y. then where is the time??
and if in the first place... you everyone oso dun trust... then how you expect people to trust that you can do the job correctly... as everything you also D.I.Y. then where got enough energy to fully concentrate and finish one job perfectly??
So... learn to trust others... and learn to gain their trust in return... But most important of all... you must see who to trust and who not to trust... to prevent yourself from being hurt....
and also in the mids of communicating you must pick those who you can trust and bring them closer to you... they will soon to be your force of fighters together... pick them carefully... if there is any mistakes in the picking you will regret as... some may go as far as to struck one deep wound behind your back...
by gaining their trust, you can also get many benefits... cos they give you the trust... they will give you more informations and knowledge that you require in life... and work. like for many of us... gossiping... if they dun trust you... they dun even want to tell you more about them... and wat they know... sometimes... informations like tips in exam and secret recepits... you can get just like 1,2,3...
there is always a word... "Be presence, not be present."
this is to all leaders... as you must learn to trust your worker... being presence in their mind when you are not around... and not to be present all the time around them and not trusting them on their work or job....
the company needs a leader to lead.... not to always go around and tell people wat they should do... cos this will in turn be a nuisance in their mind. like do you like it when people are always watching you on wat you are doing?? or do you like a leader who can trust you and give you the freedom to do the job your way and finish with the same result??
if you are able to control or lead a party of fighters... just by a call and trust... then you are already very successful in the job.
See if you dun trust them... you will be so busy in many things and not able to do your own part of job in time... like have to always do everything yourself... cos you are so scare to pass them the part of the job.... as you dun trust them, you will everything oso D.I.Y. then where is the time??
and if in the first place... you everyone oso dun trust... then how you expect people to trust that you can do the job correctly... as everything you also D.I.Y. then where got enough energy to fully concentrate and finish one job perfectly??
So... learn to trust others... and learn to gain their trust in return... But most important of all... you must see who to trust and who not to trust... to prevent yourself from being hurt....
# posted by 15_T_B @ 6:01 AM 
