Sunday, November 13, 2005
Guts to admit defeat and the most important... The guts to say sorry...
Being a human being, 80% of us... out there... do not have to guts to admit sorry. being able to say the word sorry is always the hardest thing on earth... and true enough. if one can really admit the wrong and say sorry to his subordinates... will earn not just a point of believe. but is a life time thing.
many e-mail story out there already told us that. Be true and face the fact, if you are wrong means you are wrong. just admit it. just for goddness sake. for once tried to say sorry. rather to feel sorry for yourself in your own state of mind.
when you wronged someone in your pack of believers.... and you just dun have the guts to apologise... or because of your high esteem... then your team sooner or later will not believe in you. to a degree of state... some may even view your high esteem as a person of too show off.
this guts of able to admit wrong is not just say.... sorry... and fXXK it... cos this wil not show your willingnes in the apologies.. try to talk more of the situation on why you had wronged the person. explain with a great heart and admit your wrongs. this is to prevent a vent of anger between your pack. and prevent the raising of hatred... because you are always one level higher... and they will be treating differently from what they treat themselves.
when you wronged one... it is always faster to spread them hatred between themselves and leaving you no timing in explaining. so if you think that you had wronged anyone in your believers. apologised in public and not in person. this will bring them closer to you then anything esle. and their respect for you will also increase in a way or two....
this will bring more believers to your pack and lesser foes...
in many business partnership, the guts to admit a defeat is a thing one might put to the last to do. if you always think that how you going to admit your defeats... you will never succeed. however, you must at least for an instance see the moment that if you are defeated wat will you do.
this is to at least path a back alley for you to retreat if there is any un-foreseen situation that spoilt your plans.... always remember to leave a back step path for yourself and for your foes...
a great leader is one who can admit defeat and apologise to whoever they had wronged wrongly...
many e-mail story out there already told us that. Be true and face the fact, if you are wrong means you are wrong. just admit it. just for goddness sake. for once tried to say sorry. rather to feel sorry for yourself in your own state of mind.
when you wronged someone in your pack of believers.... and you just dun have the guts to apologise... or because of your high esteem... then your team sooner or later will not believe in you. to a degree of state... some may even view your high esteem as a person of too show off.
this guts of able to admit wrong is not just say.... sorry... and fXXK it... cos this wil not show your willingnes in the apologies.. try to talk more of the situation on why you had wronged the person. explain with a great heart and admit your wrongs. this is to prevent a vent of anger between your pack. and prevent the raising of hatred... because you are always one level higher... and they will be treating differently from what they treat themselves.
when you wronged one... it is always faster to spread them hatred between themselves and leaving you no timing in explaining. so if you think that you had wronged anyone in your believers. apologised in public and not in person. this will bring them closer to you then anything esle. and their respect for you will also increase in a way or two....
this will bring more believers to your pack and lesser foes...
in many business partnership, the guts to admit a defeat is a thing one might put to the last to do. if you always think that how you going to admit your defeats... you will never succeed. however, you must at least for an instance see the moment that if you are defeated wat will you do.
this is to at least path a back alley for you to retreat if there is any un-foreseen situation that spoilt your plans.... always remember to leave a back step path for yourself and for your foes...
a great leader is one who can admit defeat and apologise to whoever they had wronged wrongly...
# posted by 15_T_B @ 2:13 AM 
